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The pain of being accepted by others and the pain of accepting yourself

Bo:)ana

On the path of self-knowledge and the desire to be an example, we will often encounter thorny paths, questions, stumbles, doubts, abysses and feel that we are in a vicious circle. Constantly some beginning towards what seems to us already answered questions.

However, having an answer without applying it is the same as listening and not hearing. There is the pain we feel when we follow our soul and are not accepted by others or the pain we feel because we betray our soul and are accepted by others. The pain of our own betrayal or betrayal of our own being is stronger if we are not in harmony with it for a long time, it lasts and turns into chronic pain. Chronic pain often leads to disease. When we try to follow our own being, pain will often be inflicted on us by others because we don't agree, we don't fit in, we don't accept what is imposed on us because it is not in line with our values.

The pain of the soul can hurt so much that the capacity of emotional weight turns the body into a physical illness and often does not give space for that either, but takes life. Weaker people, or I would say of a gentler texture, have a soul that has become so tired that there is not enough oxygen to continue in the same body and seek another form. So before you give up on your soul, ask yourself if these other people are worth your life and what part do they have in it? There is a difference between fitting in and belonging. Fitting in is changing our values for someone else's, and belonging equals the feeling of being at home.

One important lesson is that if the people in our lives don't have what we want, we shouldn't let their opinions influence us.

The price we pay to be ourselves is expensive, but the value is there because our pain will lessen many other pains felt by people who are fighting the same battles in those same moments. If our power of strength is more persistent, we must not give up on our soul, because many have given up on life in the same way.

Listen only to the opinions of people who have things in their lives that you would like to create.

Be bold and brave, those ones are needed the most.

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