I will be short because the orgasm also lasts short.
I am convinced that most people agree, that orgasm is something amazing. In fact, all those who had the opportunity to experience it. Although we all often wonder why it has to last so short. What is so special about that feeling, so we want it to last longer or forever. Is it, that we are aware of the fact we're limited by enjoyment? Is it that because we feel then like we are our own? Is it because of the feeling of freedom, and excitement or because it is a taboo topic for some people because they have not yet had a chance to experience it?
Orgasm in sex draws a parallel with orgasm in other segments of our lives. In an intimate relationship, in order to experience it, you must become aware of your body and get to know it. It is necessary to first create a connection with the body and then explain to another person what we like, right? But why is it often so difficult? People are afraid to express their true desires, and show their weaknesses because the other person may not, understand them.
It is not up to understanding, it is up to ego. Let's all pretend, so as not to hurt the other person's ego, and we will be happy. We may look happy, but with a mask on our face. The ego likes to make a blockade where we give it space for it. However, when the mask is removed, the true facial expression remains.
We are in constant search for that orgasm in other spheres of life as well. It is that special, unusual feeling. It’s that feeling when you meet someone, and know that person is different from the others you’ve been with. It's the feeling when you get up with excitement, and go to work. It is that feeling when you exercise with enthusiasm because you love your body. It's the feeling when you enjoy everything you do. We want that enthusiasm and a feeling of freedom, but our ego interfered again.
We often stay in a relationships with people who give us feeling of safety, and not true joy. In business, we chase after title and prestige, even though we know that our profession will not be written on the tombstone, nor will anyone be interested in our titles underground. Oftentimes, we don’t even like what we do.
While exercising, we obey the equipment because the majority of the population exercises in that way, which is why we do not try to find a sport that our body will really enjoy. Therefore, physical activity often turns into torture. And there are so many opportunities for everything...
Is it the ego that prevents us from experiencing the orgasm of life, because if we choose what we really like, what will others say?
While others talk, you experience the abstinence of life.
Does someone else's opinion still matter to you?
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